10 March 2:40 AM
किसी के द्वारा अत्यधिक प्रेम मिलने से आपको शक्ति मिलती है और किसी को अत्यधिक प्रेम करने से आपको साहस मिलता है। ~लाओ ज़ू
In this Blog I wanted To Share a Lesson With You From The Book "Happy Couples Club" By Dr. Abrar Multani.
Do You know?
Many People Think if You have to work or put efforts voluntarily into a Relationship that is not a relationship.
According to them the Feel good hormone will motivate you to do everything for lover. Sorry to say but They are living in fairy World of Bollywood Movies and Web series.
Where love happens at first sight and break up at first Fight.
In relationship its not about instant feeling you have for others that go on long run but your efforts and Will to work on imperfections/ Conflicts and problems Will decide how far you go.
Keep This in Mind There will be fight but choose with whom you want to fight.( Here fight means willing to resolve issues for betterment of Bond).
At initial stage your feelings, vibes matter but if you are not going to invest your time and energy into it that won't go long way. (True for any type of relationship)
Why There are many Break Ups/ Divorces?
Because people Don't Want to work on Relationship.
Bring gift for each other, Go on dates, tell your problems, understand that next person is a human being with many flaws so you can't expect him to be perfect. Give chance if he/she is asking for it.
Sometimes Giving Time to change is bigger Than Love.
I don't say that invest yourself in wrong relationship but listen to your heart and never make assumptions without talking about all things you are feeling.
If you can't meet or talk to your loved ones because of any kind of long distance or Technology try to understand that every one is fighting their own battles.
It is better to talk and resolve a big issue than no talk and regret for life time. You don't know when that person may leave this world so be grateful and kind.
Here is what I found personally "If someone Wants to Go away from me then they make assumptions and don't talk to me openly because if they will talk to me one thing is sure we both will cry and all the anger and pain that's in their heart will vanish."
So I request you to not judge me or anyone from distance. People who want to go away they just judge, make opinions and don't talk because they found it easy.
But the pain that they are suppressing will turn into a cancer and it will ruin a beautiful relationship and life.
Here are Direct Pics Of The lesson I wanted To Share With You. You can ignore the word pati - patni because the text is highly useful for all.
Hope you found this Helpful and insightful.
अंत में यही ध्यान रखो कि रिश्ते बनाने में जल्दबाजी मत करो मगर एक बार बनाओ तो फिर निभाओ ।
द्वेष, गुस्सा या इगो को बीच में मत लाओ।।
Have a Great Day To everyone 💟✨✨
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